Greetings, friends! Thank you for returning!

The topic of today’s blog entry is to examine how the tradition of homecoming relates to the

concept of trauma.

The purpose of this exploration is to demonstrate that “home” can be a source of both hurt and

healing.

The Homecoming Tradition

Homecoming is a tradition in the United States that originated in the early 1900’s and usually

takes place in September or October. It involves welcoming back past alumni or members of a

community or organization. Often, this includes an athletic game (ex: football), a party (ex:

school dance), a parade, and other activities. It typically consists of fanfare, fancy attire, and

more. In general, it is a time of celebration!

How Home Can Hurt

For some, coming home may not be a joyful event. In fact, it may be associated with trauma,

danger, and pain. Certain people may have been raised in homes where their parents were

abusive, neglectful, or abused drugs and alcohol. Others may have experienced domestic

violence by a partner. Some may have lost a loved one at home. In summary, for many people,

home is a reminder of past hurt.

How Home Can Heal

While home can be hurtful place, it can also be a healing place. Home is not confined to a

structure occupied by your biological family or those with whom you grew up. Home can be a

community of loving friends. It may be a soft, sandy beach overlooking a vibrant, blue ocean.

Home might even be a warm, fuzzy blanket. In short, home is a source of safety, comfort, and

peace.

Today’s discussion questions:

What thoughts, feelings, and images come to mind when you hear the word “home”?

How is your current home similar and/or different from your former home(s)?

What can this virtual community do to create a healthy, nurturing home for you now?



Please post your responses in the below comments section. I look forward to connecting with

you!